Heard somewhere "Marrigae is a drama where hero dies in a first chapter". Khai afu lai ta thaha bhayana. Many experiencied ladies and gentelmen in SAJHA.

Is marriage really important in life? Biha gare pachhi ta sabai freedom sakinchha re ni..ho ra bhanya??????????????????

seems like you were milk deprives..poooor li'l baby....i'll cal tyra banks for you

Rythm,
how do we determine "THE ONE"??

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what do I know?
that's why asking this ques. (o:
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Thapap....u know you have found the ONE when you start replying to all of their postings... "wink wink"... k chha bichar?!:P

Hey tyra banks is my fav model i relli wanna b lyk her LOL tyra banks ROCKS!!!

rythm,
av. poster like u posts like 12 msg. a day [roughly, more or less]
average in last 4 days for me. four [jamma]

i cannot keep up (o:

bichar and irada aafno ta sidha nai ho. timro chhai k ko? (o;
mitho aachar banayera pathaye .. bichar pani bhanam la

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this one is in full conscience
and not in jest

Thapap.... hehe How is DAD? Hajurle mero darshan byakta ta garna birsisya chaina hola ni Buwa lai;)....

Abba k garnu aaj kal posters like me dun post a lot. In fact there are very little posting that I can really relate to.. And I wonder where all my other fellow posters are aaj kal!

Bichar ra irada sidha ho re... tyo irada lai hajurle ali saral way ma (m sorry not too good with the nepali literature!) bhansya bhaye mero yo samo dimag could understand a bit easier.. what do u think....

Not in jest either (or was it in jest??;) )
Rythm:D (yours??)

i think live in relationships are much better than marriage....you enjoy everything that marriage has...other than the jhanjhats.....plus that way you get to know the other person much better....and if you decide to have kids and have a family together....you can get married!!!

I was sitting with my cousins and just talking.. you know sometimes how much fun it is to just sit.. talk about things that really dont matter and see what we think about things. I was finally able to sit down for 30 minutes and not have pain on my lower abdomen. Due to my sickness I finally had some time to spend with my cousins. Such irony... anyways.

We were sitting and talking and I dont know how the talk went over to stuff... My cousin and his gal have been together for 7 years, and now they are finally realizing that it is time for them to get married. The word I have never understood. I can NOT visualize myself as the marrying kind. I mean if neccessary then maybe one day but for now the word is a big NO NO.

We started talking and discussing. I mean ever since these people decided to commit to each other, they have been dependent on one another for every decision. Now I am at my cousins place due to my health. I do not have to think about telling anyone anything, or explaining why I am absent from my home. That is the freedom that I have as a single independent person. I do not have to rely on someone else's schedule to make my own. Nor do i have to call and make sure that there are no plans for the night before telling my cousins that i can spend the night with them.

How convinient and how satisfactory. The other thing I was thinking about was... some other day when I was with a man who I thought would be "the one" for me, I was just sitting there doing nuthin, just being comfortable in our skin when this cold sweat struck me. OMG is this really the man I think I want to spend my life with. I mean come on how do I know that this is going to last? HOW HOW HOW... There is no guaranty or anything as such that says that loving someone or even marrying them confirms that you are going to be able to be with them forever.

I mean no offense to the specific "one" but just a thought. Things might go wrong. What if you decide that later on they are NOT the one.. after its too late!! Too scary and amazing... So to all the people who are confident of their "one" and who are devoted, commited and everythin... I am amazed and I admire your sense of togetherness and your confidence on one another! For now I will just take a step back and enjoy the show!

Rythm sis,

I will take a step ahead and enjoy the show :)

I read this in SAJHA, sorry I forgot the contributor.............


7 glimpses= 1 smile
7 smiles= 1 meeting
7 meetings = 1 proposal
7 proposals= 1 kiss
7 kisses= 1 marriage
1 marriage = 77777 PROBLEMS


so .......SHADI= BARBADI

proved!!!!!!!!1

Lol Amazing jyu...that was contributed by Ardent...ohh i missed him a lot :( he has been busy with his studies lately ...

Here is the link for that
http://www.sajha.com/sajha/html/OpenThread.cfm?forum=3&ThreadID=20012

I think Richard Gere says the following in "Shall We Dance?".

"We need a witness to our lives. There's a billion people on the planet... I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you're promising to care about everything. The good things, the bad things, the terrible things, the mundane things... all of it, all of the time, every day. You're saying 'Your life will not go unnoticed because I will notice it. Your life will not go un-witnessed because I will be your witness."

But it all seems fake to me after a nasty divorce. Maybe I should change my nickname to "unluckydude". Anyways, people have different opinions about marriage. Some say it's good others say its bad. Some say you'll lose your freedom while others say you'll have at least someone who understands you (well, unless the partner is like my x-wife)

The bottom line is that it all depends who you are married to.

Marriage is just another step in the life of a human. This is the life phase for the majority of us: (1) born (2) go to school (3) finish school (4) go to college/universities (5)marriage/job / study some more (6) have kids (7) raise them (8) retire (9) become grandparents (10) DIE!

So, lets just go with the flow, people :D

Oh I could not agree more with GI's interpretation.

Oftentimes we give up on things far too easily. Yes, there could always be another one, always someone more appropriate, but the bottom line, for me at least, is love. I choose to believe, other things being equal, love among all the other things defines marriage. THAT alone shall determine marriage. When I say love, I take into all the small/big circumstantial or otherwise differences - including other necessary components.

Marriage for me shall be,
How beautiful it is to be; to be loved and to love thee.

On the ending note however, I must insist, jab tak ladka kuwara, na tumhara na Aisworya ka. :). Just had to say it, its been other way round for too long.

IndisGuise:)

:)

"Marriage" I guess is the most wonderful thing to experience (though I'm not married yet). Wouldnt you want to be able to take care of someone, see someone get happy and see someone become grateful to you for that ?

Marriage is a good thing for those who wants to have one

SHADI--- ABADI ( not barbadi)

I dun know why more than 50% marriages turn to DIVORCE in Western countries?????

I dunno if i'd be happy with seeing the same face day in and day out..and if its out here ..even at owrk...i'll choke myself to death ...marriage is only for those who are planning to have legit kids ASAP...for the rest of us..its just PITB..pain in the ...

On the same note if my dude's like hugh tom clooney orwill i will give second thoughts

lol....

I am ready now - I had enough fun - need to settle down or is there still some time?