oh aaja ta 3 years puegcha usa aayeko....khushi thiye jaba usa aaye ...eha ko system bistarai bijdai gaye...hard work garyo vane pakka success bhaincha ra oppertunity cha eha..ra pani Nepal jaba samjhanhu ...daya lagera aaucha nepal ko ..aakhir kahile samma hamro des..mero desh..ko situation esto hune...sahti haru vanchan ..thik garis usa gayera eha ekdam garo cha..

Ha Ha I did MBA got Job  one years...H1 now Back to F1 again...all those part of life ......dekhye sabai life ...

it's all life guys! ... I hope things get better for everyone! amen!

life is like taking the decisions under the cloud of uncertainties.. so try to garner the satisfaction what you have guys!!

My Personal Evaluation of US Stay:

- Been 8 yrs now

- Dherai Dish Washing Gariyoo ani Dukhha payapachi Bela mai Budhi Puriyoo

- got lucky few times in life - finishing Ph.D.

- working for government

- recently saw few friend's parents passed away back in country and due to circumstances they couldn't go to pay last respect

- just promised myself to go back to country and stay with the loved ones once i finish studies

...otherwise the inner voice will hunt me till the day i die.

Good Luck Fellas

साथी हो , औसी पछीको पुर्णिमाको रातको महिमा अर्कै छ । म आँफै पनि बिदेश जानु पर्छ , नेपाल मा केही गर्न सकिएन वा पढाई पनि हुने पैसा पनि बनाइने आदी आदी कुराले होमिएको छु .

म आँफै ले पनि कुनै खोज नै नगरि बिदेसिए तेस्तै धेरै जसो साथी हरु ले तेसै गर्नु भएको होला , जे जे पर्छ हेर्दै जाउला , सबै अमेरिका बाट फर्कने ले दिएको फुर्ती र गफ लाई आत्मसाथ गरी किन म पनि त्यस्तो न हुने बिचार  लिएर छिरिएको हो, तर कल्पना गरिएको अमेरिका र भोग्नु पर्ने अमेरिका दुई ध्रुबिय हुन भन्ने कुरा " the other side of the wall is always green " जस्तै हो ।  यो कल्पना मात्रै हो र  बास्तविकता बुज्न हामी भोगेरै मात्र थाहा पाउने हुनाले अहिले हामी यहाँ हाम्रा बिचार हरु पोख्दै छौ।

यो कुरा हामीलाई नपच्ला तर केही हद सम्म हामी वास्तविकता भन्दा पनि ल है ल है पछी लाग्छौ कि जस्तो पनि लाग्छ। मैले तेसै गरे जस्तो लाग्छ ।

Bottom line: As PoonHill said, hang on there, no looking back move ahead, we can achieve our goal. Let's not regret , let's focus on our goal and reason to be here.

Khai..........K diyo chahi thaha chaina.......????

Tara manchay chahi pakaii banayo yo america le. Juena sika yo. Aani parisraam garna sika yo. Arue dherai cha list ma, tara yi sabai nai mera lagi kaffi chan.

Mr.PoonHill the one who commented on this post is in US for 17 years now. How are you old friend?

Dherai kura sikayo. Parisyam ni gariyo dherai ra asal bidyathi ni banayo yo desh le... Dukha cha sathi haru aile ni padeko jasto kam pako chaina tara khoj jari cha.
Ekdin awasya din aucha, pratikshya ma chu tyo ek din ko

Ask not what America gave to you, ask what you gave to America.

These are what i learnt: Hardwork, self dependent, responsible, Analytical, Support for family

These are what i lost: Social skills, spelling skills, grammar, family time, last respect to my father.

USA bhanda ni..what life gave me bhanera soch an mann lagxa. Ani pauxoo, it's true that life always gives you just little more than what you are capable of.
Ani khusi hunxoo... Ratee sutxoo.

अमेरिकाले के दियो हैन अमेरिका संग मैले के लिए भन्नु पर्ला कि कसो? कुनै पनि देशले केहि पनि दिदैन आफैले
लिनु पर्छ नेपालमै भएको भएपनि Nepal ले कि दिन्थ्यो होला र? प्रधान मन्त्रि वाइड बडी मै मस्त चाहे त्यो ऐर्लएनस को होस् कि रास्ट्रपति को होस् , तेसैले मेहनत गरौ र सफलता हासिल गरौ /

Oh ho Sajha ka sathi-haru, hope you guys are doing well. It has been more than 7 years since I stopped exchanging thoughts, ideas, hopes, humors, frustrations and everything in-between here in Sajha; but I do come in and follow threads once in a while for sure. Thank you AdrianDaju for the shout out. 

Great to see a positive comment on Sajha! Good luck Poon-Hill on your next adventure!

Great! Poon-Hill, ppl like you are an inspiration here and Posts like these makes Sajha evergreen. Glad to hear from Old Sajha members and them doing great in their life. Wonder how’s NAS- the baddest man on Sajha doing these days lol.

It's great to read something with positive thoughts with the message that world is for those who can keep pushing towards their goal without constantly whining about everything.
Poon hill all the best for your future endeavors.

Poon_Hill ko kura sundaa euta hindi muhaabaraa yaad aayo....

"Abey, bas karr pagley, rulaayegaa kyaa????"

Paisa

Good to see you guys from our ole times. For me, what america gave:

Independence or self-sufficiency, maturity, ability to see things from other perspectives, ability to hardwork, courage to face difficulties ( I am not afraid anymore, bring it on), money (of course), advanced degree, ability to accept differences in us, made liberal,

What it took away:

As someone already pointed out-social life, true/ good friends, youth,

I am also thinking of going back in a few years' time. Have responsibilities towards parent, they are getting old.