Sajha may cease to exist... as a helpful site for a lot of Nepalis if certain things are not addressed.

Lately there has been a lot of horseplay going on in sajha which has the potential of undermining the usefulness of sajha so I had been meaning to write something to inform a select group of users that sajha is not a playground for their personal entertainment. There are different types of entertainment that can be enjoyed by everyone but not the type that is achieved by ridiculing others, name calling, posting vulgar words, and discouraging others from being part of sajha.

I had been meaning to write but I was postponing a bit but the following post has indicated that my action is getting more urgent.

"साझामा आउने अति "बुद्धिजिबी", "चाहिने भन्दा धेरै बढी गम्भिर" अनि "पाखे टाइप" हरुलाई बिच्काउनु नै मेरो एक मात्रा उद्देश्य हो| "

The particular person had been banned in the past as well, due to spreading negativity, and after months of him imploring me to unban him I activated his account again; and looks like he is there again ignoring the only major policy of sajha - that of tolerance.

In sajha, noone is a बुद्धिजिबी or पाखे. Everyone is ordinary, some more ordinary than others but everyone deserving the same respect, tolerance and the ability to post in sajha without fear of retribution from a self-proclaimed individual or a group who want sajha to be the way they deem fit for their personal entertainment. Everyone has a right to post in sajha that is not abusive to anyone, that is not intolerant of others. Everyone has a right to agree to disagree without being offensive. Noone has a right to be offensive to others for their thoughts and ideas which are not offensive to anyone.

Sajha has a potential of helping out a lot of people in their pursuit of knowledge, roommates, general questions, immigration issues, and essentially the sky is the limit on what can be achieved by helping each other out and collaborating on positive activities. It definitely is not going to be undermined by a single user or a group of users who may be under the impression that sajha is like the Japanese donated sajha bus - of which they want to break the window, tear the seats according to their whims for their personal entertainment.

To date, thousands of people have benefitted from sajha and more will in the coming future. This is just a note to inform few select users that their language and attitude needs to improve if they want to continue to be part of this community.

All postings after this will be monitored to ensure that the policy of  tolerance is respected and if it is clear that someone does not want to be a part of sajha then we will make sure to give a fitting and well deserved farewell.

got it sir

who is he talking 'bout. Is it Nas?

He is talking about evryone who is abuser of sajha. It can even b U. So mek sajha a better place to share ur ideas rather than a corner for all of our cheap comments and pervert acts. If the current trend goes on, sajha will definitely need  PARENTAL GUIDANCE to log in, in near future.
I hope evry one understands.

indeed sajha has lost it's charm these days,

हेर सानब्रो: तिमीले पब्लिक फोरम खोले पछी यहाँ सबै टाइपका मान्छेहरु जम्मा हुन्छन भन्ने कुरो तिमीलाई थाहा हुनु पर्ने हो| यहाँ तिमीले खोजेका जस्ता "अती विद्वान" मात्रै आउन्नन र म जस्ता हसीमजाक गर्ने मान्छे पनि आउछ| यहाँ आएर आ-आफ्नो ईगो बूस्त गर्दै हिंड्ने बिद्द्वान बर्गको खिल्ली उडाउन पाउनु हाम्रो पनि अधिकार को कुरा जस्तो लाग्छ मलाई|  

अब यो साइट मेरो बाउ को होइन। तिम्रो हो| तिमी यहाँ तानाशाही चलाऊन चाहन्छौ भने तिमीलाई स्वागत छ| तिमीलाई मेरो कुरो ले घोच्यो र ति "बिद्द्वान" बर्ग जस्लाई म बिच्काउन चाहन्छु (जस्त फर फन नि फेरी), मा तिमी स्वयम पनि परेउ भने, गर्देउ मलाई ब्यान| त्यस्तै हो भने तिम्रो यो भुत्रो जस्तो साइट म आउनु पनि छैन मलाई||| गूड् बाई|

PS: This could be my last post if His Majesty decides to ban me... Adios to all my friends here just in case...

Dear SAN ,
Its the same thing I was writing on my previous thread "To whom it may concern" . I know i have been one of the stupid user but I have never intend to be offensive for someone. And of course if someone comes to me and start using bad words to me , I am not a good boy to give him smile back.
Same thing happedned to that thread open by yotabhayenanesom which you delete. I was really thankful for that.
and of course as a "trying to be" good sajha user , i will keep this words on mind. 
Pagal 

thank goodness the admin has finally decided to do something. hopefully, everyone will take this message in the way they should. sajha is a good platform for everyone to share things and get/provide help, let's keep it clean fellas. San bro didn't mention it explicitly, but i'd like to ask some of you (you know who you are) to stop posting your personal stories (like the one that was posted yesterday, about long distance relationships), videos containing nudity (like Nas posted once, looked like the male on the video was masturbating), cartoons and pictures with nude/adult content, etc. you might think it's fun to share but it might not be the case for all those countless users of sajha who browse the site hoping to find something good. there are countless other websites where you can share your nude videos, pictures, and sex stories.
sajha is a fantastic resource, let's use it wisely.

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Pagalpremi bro: I don't see why San should have deleted my post regarding daura suruwal. I have nothing against that dress but I don't think it represents all of Nepal. We are free to form our opinions, this forum included... And it's never a good idea to push stuff down peoples' throats. I am yet to understand why it was deleted... I did not get a chance to see what replies were posted on that thread, so can't comment on that...

ha ha PagalBro: yo quote ta mero ho ni.. hi hi hi

"साझामा आउने अति "बुद्धिजिबी", "चाहिने भन्दा धेरै बढी गम्भिर" अनि "पाखे टाइप" हरुलाई बिच्काउनु नै मेरो एक मात्रा उद्देश्य हो| "

Jesus bro ta hijai ban bhai sakya behora timilai awagat garaauna chahanchu...

That was not you bro , that was that guy called Jesus Christ , i checked his profile and its deleted same day.
And bro timro yo kura chai malai ali man parena hai
"साझामा आउने अति "बुद्धिजिबी", "चाहिने भन्दा धेरै बढी गम्भिर" अनि "पाखे टाइप" हरुलाई बिच्काउनु नै मेरो एक मात्रा उद्देश्य हो| "
I just read that your comment in other thread. i thought you were good guy but this statement tells your nature .
I am Pakhe , I am from villege and will go back to my villege after i finish over here. so whats you goona do?

PagalBro: Pakhe is not where you are from... Pakhe is a state of mind. I have seen may pakhe kathmanduites... he he ...

Nobody learn anything from mothers womb dude. Dont forget about yourself.
As I told to NAS , i want to say to you " nothing is good or right; its all about state where you are" .भर्याङ लाई माथि बाट हेर्यो भने ओरलो धेखिन्छ , तल बाट हेर्यो भने उकालो धेखिन्छ .
You may not be from villege but the statement above says you have poor mentality less than a PAKHE like me.

Pagalbro: You are entitled to your views... If you find "paakhe" word offensive, that was not my intent. As I said, paakhe is a state of mind, not meant to related to where you are from...

 सान दाईको तेस्रो नेत्र खुल्ने बेला भैसक्यो। भुत्रा को हल्ला गरेर बस्या छौ झ्याक्ने हो। अझ खेत र पाखो को कुरो गर्छौ।

"साझामा आउने अति "बुद्धिजिबी", "चाहिने भन्दा धेरै बढी गम्भिर" अनि "पाखे टाइप" हरुलाई बिच्काउनु नै मेरो एक मात्रा उद्देश्य हो| "
सोम तिम्रो कुरा को म व्याख्या गर्छु है कतै मिस्तके भो भने मलाई भन
१) साझामा आउने अति "बुद्धिजिबी" : साझा मा हामी केबल रमाइलो गर्दैनौ , एक अर्का लाई सहयोग नि गर्छौ , कैले कसैलाई java को हेल्प चाहिन्छ त कैले कसैलाई immigration को अब कोइ जान्ने मान्छे ले नसेकाए तिमी जस्ता उरन्थेउला को कुर सुन्ने? कि साझा मा आउन नै छोडि दिने , तिमीलाई त नचाहिएला तर हामीलाई त्यो बुद्दी जिबी हरु चाहिन्छ
२) "चाहिने भन्दा धेरै बढी गम्भिर" : कसै को भावना सँग खेल्ने तिम्लाई कुनै अधिकार छैन , कसैले एहा आएर आफो पिर मर्का राख्न पाउन पर्छ , रख्चन पनि । तिम्रो अधिकार भित्र त्यो मान्छे को भावना सँग खेल्ने अधिकार पर्दैन । भोली कुनै नेपाली लाई कही केही भयो (मा प्राथना गर्छु त्यस्तो नहोस् ) र साझा मा आएर गम्भीर रुप मा आयो भने तिमी के तेस्को खिल्ली उदौछौ ? तिम्ले भन्न खोजेको तेइ हैन "बिच्काउनु नै मेरो एक मात्रा उद्देश्य हो"
३) "पाखे टाइप" : कल्लाई पाखे भन्छु तिमी ? कती भयो तिमी अमेरिका आएको ? मनसिक्ता को कुर गर्छौ ?? माथि को एउता लाइन ले नै तिम्रो मनसिक्ता प्रस्ट हुन्छ ।
सोम तिमी सँग मलाई ब्यग्तिगत रुप म केइ लिनु दिनु छैन । तिम्रो त्यो माथि को लिने को व्याख्या मात्र गरेको हुँ। मिलेन भने भन्नु
पागल 

"बिद्द्वान बर्गको खिल्ली उडाउन पाउनु हाम्रो पनि अधिकार को कुरा जस्तो लाग्छ मलाई"

"तानाशाही चलाऊन चाहन्छौ भने तिमीलाई स्वागत छ"

"तिम्रो यो भुत्रो जस्तो साइट म आउनु पनि छैन मलाई||| गूड् बाई| "

त्योतभयननी सोम

You have every right to believe what you want to but it is becoming clearly evident that

• in your make believe world you actually believe that you have a right to ridicule others for appearing to be more serious than you or smarter than you
• in your make believe world you think sajha is a country run by despot. (a) you are not paying any taxes, and (b) In my home (homepage here), I set the rules and you are welcome to not come if you don't like my rules. Which leads me to (c) your voluntary withdrawl
• Thank you for volunteering to leave "तिम्रो यो भुत्रो जस्तो साइट म आउनु पनि छैन मलाई||| गूड् बाई|" Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
• Lastly if you have any sense of pride or ethics left in you, I would not come back to a place where I was not welcome specially after saying "तिम्रो यो भुत्रो जस्तो साइट म आउनु पनि छैन मलाई||| गूड् बाई|" For you this is a "bhutro jasto site" so please don't come back, if you have any respect for what you said.
• Sajha will be a better place without your negativity.
• Thank you very much for being an example of a person who is not welcome in sajha

Yours sincerely

PS: this is not personal, I am sure personally you don't have the indecency to throw slurs at people who are serious about their lives. This is only about that anonymous you who thinks you have the right to impose your intolerance onto others.

San this is why i love Sajha :-)
You are awesome man.
 
@Bodmas bro , i dont think SAN has done anything wrong. Afno view personal kura ho , negativity arko kura ho.  First read the threads of yotabhayenanisom and reply bro.
He is worth of nothing as a user too.